How to Introduce Your Adult Cat to a New Kitten

We all love a kitten, and you might be tempted to add one to your household. No matter the circumstances, bringing home and raising a kitten comes with its challenges, from getting the all-important vet visits booked in to cleaning up those little accidents, but things can get more complex still when you throw an adult cat into the mix. 

Cats are quite solitary creatures, and often won’t take kindly to being required to share their living space with someone else all of a sudden – particularly a smaller cat who might not yet understand boundaries! But, with some careful planning, it’s perfectly possible for your adult cat to learn to at least tolerate a new kitten, even if they may never be the best of friends. And here’s how. 

What to consider before getting a kitten

If you haven’t yet made your mind up on whether or not to get a kitten, there are a couple of things to think about first. 

Do you have the space for two cats? Cats aren’t large animals, but at the same time, each cat will need a minimum of around 18–20sq ft in the house, but more is always preferable –particularly if your cats don’t have any outdoor space. It can be helpful to give your adult cat access to spaces, perhaps those higher up, that your kitten can’t get to, too. 

Will you have the time and money to commit to making the transition into a two-cat household easier for everyone – particularly the cat you already have? For the safety and happiness of both cats, it’s worth taking as much care as you can when it comes to introducing them to each other, from carefully supervising the first few meetings to buying everything your kitten needs. This isn’t really something that you can do by halves. 

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Introducing a cat to a new kitten – first steps

Begin by setting up a room or zone that’s a safe space for your new kitten – ideally, a spare bedroom (if you have one). Make sure it’s got everything your kitten needs, so that they can settle into their new home at their own pace. In there, you should make sure they have food and water bowls, a litter tray, a scratching post, bedding, some toys, and some places to hide if possible, too. 

Scent-swapping is also important. Before both cats actually meet, get one cat’s scent on a cloth and give it to the other cat to investigate at their leisure and vice-versa. This is an important step to help your adult cat in particular get used to the scent of the new kitten. 

“When introducing the two cats to one another, it should be done with a barrier that they can see and smell each other through, but not touch each other,” explains Dr Anna Foreman, Everypaw Pet Insurance’s in-house vet. “This will allow them to assess one another without the risk of a fight breaking out.”

She recommends using a pheromonal spray like Feliway Friends in this sort of scenario, as it’s proven to lower tension in households with multiple cats. 

When you think your kitten and your adult cat are ready to meet face-to-face, remember not to force them. They should both have routes to leave the meeting, whether that’s by going into another room or getting onto a higher platform. At first, keep meetings short and make sure there are plenty of treats and toys around. 

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“If you have two cats in a household, it is important to have multiple litter trays – ideally one more than the number of cats to prevent resource competition,” says Dr Foreman. This goes for food and water bowls, too, ideally. If you can, it’s a good idea to put them in different places around the home, but this will of course depend on the space you have. 

To that end, it’s a good idea to feed your cats separately, too, and make sure your kitten can’t get to your adult cat’s food. This will make your adult cat feel more comfortable and at ease, rather than feeling as if there’s an intruder in their space. And, your cats will likely have different food to begin with, so it’s best to make sure they both keep to their own. 

It’s also a good idea to buy a diffuser like Feliway, which uses the pheromones associated with comfort and safety to help relax cats and reduce anxiety, if you haven’t already. It can be used during initial introductions to help the cats feel more comfortable around each other, but also later on if any conflict or tension arises. 

Be mindful of your older cat

Has your older cat had a bad experience with other cats? If your adult cat has had past negative experiences with other cats, whether previous cats you’ve owned, cats they lived with before they came to you, or even just cats in the street, you might need to be more careful and considered in how you manage the introductions. 

Likewise, you might need to be extra mindful if you have a senior cat at home, particularly if they’ve been the only cat for many years, or even their whole life. They might struggle to cope with a small, high-energy kitten. So, particularly if you have a senior cat, it’s important to tire your kitten out – play with them lots, so they’re more likely to give your senior cat a break!

And while kittens are seriously cute and getting a new cat can be exciting – though it should go without saying – make sure you keep things consistent for your older cat. Still give them lots of fuss and attention, not ignoring them in favour of the kitten. Even if your kitten takes up a lot of your time with things like training and vet visits, your older cat still deserves the same TLC it’s used to. “It’s important to look out for signs of long-term stress in both cats – for example, overgrooming or repeat episodes of cystitis,” says Dr Foreman. “Stress can cause significant medical issues in some cats, and so the temperament of the original cat should always be considered before another cat is introduced to the household.”

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She explains that, if a cat is already dealing with stress-related issues like these, the added stress of another cat being introduced could exacerbate them. Likewise, you may be more likely to come across issues with a sensitive or easily-stressed cat.

But in many cases, a senior cat or one who’s had previous negative experiences will come to get on with a new kitten after some careful, gradual introductions. But there are also stories of people deciding to rehome kittens after their adult cats just don’t get on with them. For some cats, it’s simply better for them to live in one-cat households, and that’s okay!

Signs your cat is unhappy

When introducing cats to each other, you should be prepared to end the meeting if they appear uncomfortable. And there are a few tell-tale signs to look out for, including: 

• staring

• hissing, growling or loud vocalisations

• dilated pupils

• swishing tails

• flattened ears

• piloerection (fluffed-up tail and arched back)

• hiding

• swatting or biting

It’s better to be safe than sorry, so don’t be afraid to remove your cats from the situation if you think things are going south. Doing so could prevent plenty of stress and conflict, or even injury. Dr Foreman says that, if a fight does break out, the cats should be separated carefully, without putting yourself at risk. If there are any wounds or bites, the affected cat should see the vet as the bacteria from the other cat’s mouth or claws could lead to abscesses.

Ultimately, says Dr Foreman, “It will take time to successfully introduce two cats to one another. They may not become best of friends and may simply tolerate each other’s presence.”

However, if you’re prepared to put the work in now, you’ll reap the words going forward and your kitties are more likely to have a long, happy time together.